If I’ve made a recurring mistake in relationships over the course of my life, it has been trying to “fix” other people. Interestingly - to “fix” something implies that it was broken before you got hold of it - and who decides what “broken” is?
Of course, I did not consciously enter into these relationships with [...]

When I talk about being 100% responsible for your life, I get a lot of raised eyebrows. So, let me define “your life”, and then maybe some of those eyebrows will settle back down into place.
Your life:

Your thoughts
Your beliefs
Your words
Your actions
Your responses to circumstance, outside events and other people

That’s it. That’s the list of what [...]