I have been looking for ways to add more value for you, so I’ve been ‘informally’ asking around for ideas. Most frequently, the answer has been to host a free teleconference call at least once a month. But when?

They say time heals all wounds, but I disagree. I know too many people still hung up on the past and miserable for that to be true. I think what heals the wounds is letting go of wishing things had turned out differently and accepting what is.
So how do you let go of wishing things [...]

I’m going to go out on a limb and suggest to you that the single best thing you can do to improve the quality of your life is to live in the present moment. Get your head out of the past and out of the future and keep it here - in the present - [...]

Oprah and author, Eckhart Tolle, for the first time ever are teaching A New Earth in Oprah’s worldwide classroom live Monday nights on Oprah.com.
A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose is Tolle’s latest book. He is the author of the New York Times bestseller The Power of Now and several other books.
I have registered [...]

The 2nd Edition of my e-book, Go To The Balcony To Get A Grip! is available for you to download. It’s there in the sidebar.

Before you freak out and say there are just some things you can’t forgive, hear me out.
Carrying around past hurts, old resentments and grudges is the heaviest baggage we have, of all, and it serves no one. It does, however, sap of us the happiness we most desire in life, and keeps us from living [...]

It only takes a split second to decide to make a difference. Just a minute to brighten someone’s day. Just a little of your time to create a memory for someone…and for yourself.

All those years, while I was so busy putting out fires caused by others’ choices, all I wanted was for them to be responsible for themselves. I wanted them to care enough about themselves to make better choices for themselves. But I was the pot calling the kettle black.
Where was their example of setting healthy [...]

Happy Valentine’s Day, everyone. No regular post today, because I’m working on something special for you. See over there at the left, the book cover under “Coming Soon”? Yeah…that’s it. I decided it’s about time I quit stalling and get it written.
So, I hope you enjoyed your day and spent at least some of [...]

When setting personal boundaries, you have to decide what action you will take if the other person displays unacceptable behavior. To effectively decide, you have to own all your choices. This means giving up the victim role and getting rid of all the “have to”s in your vocabulary and thinking.
To see just how pervasive the [...]