When it comes to abundance - feeling it, having it, experiencing it - I’ve found there are two surprising prerequisites involved: letting go and saying, “No.” Now, that might sound crazy, at first, but bear with me and I’ll show you why.

For every choice we make, there are consequences. That’s true for us, our kids, our spouses, our friends, our bosses, our employees - everyone. No one is immune. One of the toughest learning curves we face in life is dealing with consequences - ours and the ones those we care about create. Let me give you an example - and this is a pretty simple situation compared to many situations we face in life.

I came to the realization about 15 years ago that almost ALL of my ’suffering’ in life was caused by my resistance to ‘what is’. It hit me one day, that my misery was caused by me wanting things to be different than they were. I wanted the past to be different, but was stuck [...]

They say time heals all wounds, but I disagree. I know too many people still hung up on the past and miserable for that to be true. I think what heals the wounds is letting go of wishing things had turned out differently and accepting what is.
So how do you let go of wishing things [...]

Letting go of the outcome in any situation is easier said than done, for most of us. Let me be clear, though - letting go of the outcome does not relieve you of your responsibilities in life. Letting go of the outcome means that you do your part to the best of your ability, understanding [...]

One of the most interesting ‘adventures’ of my life to date has been learning how to detach with love. I’ve had multiple opportunities to learn this over the course of my life because I’m rather hardheaded and life has a way of being rather persistent when it comes to teaching us what we most need [...]

No, I’m NOT talking about your vacuum cleaner. I’m sure you’re pretty well introduced to it, by now. No, the vacuum I’m talking about is the kind of vacuum that is an empty space. When you’re looking to increase your prosperity, create a vacuum.
You have heard it said that Nature abhors a vacuum. It is [...]

When things aren’t going the way you plan or the way you want, it’s easy to get frustrated and become your own worst enemy through worry and self-doubt. You can nitpick yourself to death, obsess about what you should have done instead of what you did, wish you could turn back time and say something [...]

When you think about the life you REALLY want to live, how much do you want it? This is the critical question which determines whether you will actually create it or continue wanting it the rest of your life.
There is a price to pay for creating the life you really want to live. It’s the [...]

When you’re trying to figure something out, decide what to do next, or have questions without ready answers, here’s a way to get help that’s always available to you. Put it in the night deposit box in your mind.
Huh?
Your mind, particularly your subconscious mind, is more powerful than you realize. It’s always working, always noticing, [...]